Lead yourself first: The foundation of effective leadership with Dr. Kevin Mays

What does true leadership look like in today’s business landscape? Dr. Kevin Mays reveals it begins not with controlling others, but with mastering yourself. His journey from aerospace engineering student to leadership consultant offers profound insights on building organizations that thrive beyond their founders.

Dr. Mays challenges conventional wisdom about leadership, arguing that before you can effectively lead others, you must first understand your thought patterns and intentions. This self-awareness forms the foundation for creating environments where people feel empowered to bring their best selves to work.

Many business owners fall victim to “founder syndrome,” where their tight grip on every aspect of operations prevents growth and stifles talented employees. As Dr. Mays explains, “Too many leaders focus on the next quarter at the expense of the human beings actually doing the work.” The result? Disengagement, high turnover of top talent, and ultimately, a business that depends entirely on its owner.

For those looking toward retirement or succession planning, Dr. Mays offers practical advice: Document your processes, clarify roles and responsibilities, develop your team members, and most importantly – let go of control. “Your business should be working for you,” he emphasizes, “not you working for your business.”

The conversation explores how business owners can shift from being “in the weeds” to taking a strategic position at the “top of the mountain,” guiding the organization’s future direction while empowering others to handle day-to-day operations. This transition creates not just a more fulfilling leadership experience, but a more valuable, sellable business.

Whether you’re struggling with micromanagement tendencies, planning your exit strategy, or simply wanting to create a more engaged workplace, Dr. Mays’ insights offer a roadmap to building an organization that works even when you’re not present. Visit MaysLeadership.com to connect with Dr. Mays and access resources for growing your business.